ABC's of Godly Character - H

H is for Honesty! Honesty is the quality, condition, or characteristic of being fair, truthful, and morally upright. It is being free of deceit and fraud, having the quality of being honorable and upright in character and actions. Satan is called the “father of lies.”

You cannot trust or believe anything that Satan says or does. God only speaks what is right and true and it is impossible for Him to lie (Hebrews 6:18). God can be trusted. Honest people can be trusted. Dishonest people cannot be trusted. You must decide for yourself whether or not you will be honest & trustworthy. There will be many times in your life where you will have to choose to be like your Heavenly Father who speaks only truth, or choose to honor Satan by lying.  Honesty isn’t easy, doing what is right is not natural in a sin-filled world. 2 Corinthians 8:21 says “providing honorable things, not only in the sight of the Lord, but also in the sight of men.”  As a Christian, we should always strive to do what is honest.  Philippians 4:8 says “Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things.” 

John Quincy Adams said "All men profess honesty as long as they can. To believe all men honest would be folly. To believe none so, is something worse."   

The Bible is full of examples of honesty or lack of it: look up these people if you don't remember who they were: Achan -Joshua 7, Ananias & Sapphira -Acts 5; Abraham -Genesis 20; Micaiah -1Kings 22; Gehazi - 2 Kings 5. Honesty is always the best policy! Remember that people will not always like it when you tell the truth, especially if you say things they don't want to hear, but it is important to speak the truth, no matter what others want you to say. God is pleased when we speak the truth!

        Prayer starter: Dear Lord, please help me to always be an honest person. Guide my thoughts and my speech so that I do not speak with intent to deceive. Convict me when I fail so that I may learn to be a more honest person and a better example to others. In Your Name, Amen. 

        Your mission should you choose to accept it, is to choose to be honest and speak the truth in love today. 

ABC's of Godly Character - G

G is for Growth! Spiritual Growth is the process of becoming more and more like Jesus. When we place our faith in Jesus, the Holy Spirit begins the process of making us more like Him, changing us to His image.

By God's power we have everything we need to live Godly lives. The key to obtaining everything we need is to obtain knowledge about God. Our knowledge of Him comes from the Word, given to us to help us grow and mature into bold, witnessing Christians. We don’t obtain knowledge just by sitting in the pews at church, or in class, or by flying through Bible readings just to check off a list of the things we are supposed to do. You have to actually absorb what you hear and read. It has to soak into our hearts and change us. We have to gain understanding of His Word so much that it convicts us to change. Colossians 1:9-10 says “And so, from the day we heard, we have not ceased to pray for you, asking that you may be filled with the knowledge of his will in all spiritual wisdom and understanding, 10 so as to walk in a manner worthy of the Lord, fully pleasing to him, bearing fruit in every good work and increasing in the knowledge of God.” (ESV). Does your spiritual growth show that you are gaining knowledge and wisdom about God? Do you live a life pleasing to God ALL the time? Does your life bear good fruit or rotten fruit? Knowledge doesn’t help us, unless it leads us to change and live right in the sight of God. We should strive to learn what God wants us to do and then pray for the power of the Holy Spirit to help us do it. God wants us to learn more about Him and to also help others do the same. We are always moving, the question is “what direction are we moving?”. Are we taking steps to get closer to God or is our daily choices leading us further away?

Prayer Starter: Dear Lord, please help me to grow more in my relationship with You. Help me to draw nearer and nearer to You. Give me a desire to spend more time reading and learning from Your Word. Help me to learn to talk and pray to You more often. In Your Name, Amen.

Your mission, should you choose to accept it, is to make a commitment to spend time with God EVERY day. Add a timer to your phone, or mark it on your calendar. Are you willing to give God 5-10 minutes of your day to help your spiritual growth?

ABC's of Godly Character - F

F is for Forgiveness! Forgiveness is the ability to overlook another person’s weaknesses or mistakes by expressing Christ’s love. We are to forgive, let go of that wrong, and forget it! If we bring it back up every time we are upset then we haven’t truly forgiven them. If we can’t forgive another person, then why should Christ forgive us? Forgiveness is hard, and sometimes the last thing we want to do, but we must. Colossians 3:13 tells us to “Make allowance for each others faults, and forgive anyone who offends you. Remember, the Lord forgave you, so you must forgive others.” (ESV). Do we have to keep on forgiving others that do us wrong or can we just write them off and be done with them? Matthew 18:21-22 tells us that Peter asked the same thing: “Then Peter came to Jesus and asked, "Lord, how many times shall I forgive my brother when he sins against me? Up to seven times?" Jesus answered, "I tell you, not seven times, but seventy-seven times.” (ESV) This doesn’t mean we should forgive someone 77 times. It means that just like Christ gives us never-ending forgiveness we should offer the same to others. Forgive every time someone seeks our forgiveness. Colossians 3:12-14 says “Put on then, as God's chosen ones, holy and beloved, compassionate hearts, kindness, humility, meekness, and patience, bearing with one another and, if one has a complaint against another, forgiving each other; as the Lord has forgiven you, so you also must forgive. And above all these put on love, which binds everything together in perfect harmony.” (ESV) In these verses, Paul gives us instructions to help us live for God every day. We should have Christ’s forgiving attitude. We should let love guide our thoughts and life. We should have peace in our hearts and with others. Every action, every word we speak, and every attitude we have either reflects a life for Christ or of Satan. Which one will you choose to represent today? 

Matthew West sings “Forgiveness”: It flies in the face of all your pride, It moves away the mad inside, It's always anger's own worst enemy, Even when the jury and the judge, Say you gotta right to hold a grudge, It's the whisper in your ear saying 'Set It Free', Forgiveness. Show me how to love the unlovable, Show me how to reach the unreachable, Help me now to do the impossible, Forgiveness, Forgiveness.” 

Prayer starter: Dear God, thank you for always forgiving me even though I don’t deserve it. Please give me a forgiving heart like yours. Help me to be more forgiving to others today. Amen.

          Your mission, should you choose to accept it, is to be more forgiving today. Offer forgiveness to the people that have hurt you and more forward from there.   

ABC's of Godly Character - E

E is for Evangelism! Evangelism is the communication of the gospel message, including a warning, an explanation, and a call. Evangelism is warning people about sin and its consequences. It is an explanation of God’s remedy for sin and clear call to turn from sin and to turn toward God, to repent and believe in Jesus by faith. Who is supposed to evangelize? Preachers and adults? Sure they are, but ALL of us are also called to evangelize. Acts 1:8 says “But you will receive power when the Holy Spirit has come upon you, and you will be my witnesses in Jerusalem and in all Judea and Samaria, and to the end of the earth.” (ESV). From the moment we get saved we are called to enter into God’s Mission Field. God places people in our lives specifically for us to witness to. No one else may be able to talk to that person like we can.  

Babbie Mason sums up evangelism best with the song “Each One Reach One”: “The message is unchanging: "Go ye into all the world", and share the love of Jesus, far away or door to door. Just like somebody told you that Jesus loves you so you must tell someone who will tell someone, until the whole world knows. For each one, can reach one, as we follow after Christ, we all can lead one.  We can lead one to the Savior.  Then together we can tell the world that Jesus is the Way, If we each one, reach one. So will you go and labor? Will you hold high your light? One by one, and two by two, we can win our world for Jesus Christ.”

 How are others supposed to get saved if we don’t do our part in evangelism? Romans 10:14-15 says 14 “How then will they call on him in whom they have not believed? And how are they to believe in him of whom they have never heard? And how are they to hear without someone preaching? And how are they to preach unless they are sent? As it is written, “How beautiful are the feet of those who preach the good news!” (ESV) We all have to tell the world about Jesus. God calls all of us to do it. Are you fulfilling your call today? 

Prayer starter: Heavenly Father, please help me to not be ashamed of the Good News of salvation. Help me to boldly tell others about your great love today. Help me to evangelize the world around me. Help me to see the world through your eyes. God give me the words and courage to spread the Gospel everywhere I go. Thank You for filling me with the Holy Spirit so that I may speak of Your wonderful love today. Amen.

Your mission, should you choose to accept it, is to ask God to show you the person and give you the courage to tell them about Jesus today.

ABC's of Godly Character - D

D is for Devotion!  Devotion is committed deep love great dedication and loyalty, strong enthusiasm and admiration for somebody or something. Who or what are you devoted to? Are you devoted to your team? Are you devoted to your family? Are you devoted to God and your relationship with Him? Devotion requires work and commitment.  In 2 Corinthians 11:3 Paul says “I am afraid that as the serpent deceived Eve by his cunning, your thoughts will be led astray from a sincere and pure devotion to Christ.” (ESV). Paul knew that Satan would attack our commitment to Christ. The moment we get saved, the attacks will begin. From that point on, we are forever in a battle with Satan for your devotion and your soul. We should first and most importantly be devoted to a life for Christ. It is hard, but look at the great reward we will receive. Heaven is where we should desire to live, and we can only get there by confessing our sins and asking Jesus to redeem us. He was devoted enough to pay the death penalty for us, so we should honor and thank Him by returning such devotion. We serve a jealous God. Exodus 20:5 commands that we have no idols. “You shall not bow down to them or serve them, for I the Lord your God am a jealous God.” (ESV). We will be either devoted to things or people of this world or to God. Where is your devotion? Jesus made it clear that we can’t have it both ways. If we are going to have God in the center of our lives, nothing or no one can share that unique position with him. Are you devoted to Jesus more than money, the pleasures of this life, recreation, entertainment, sports or even another person, including a family member? Mark 12:30 says “And you shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength.” (ESV). 

        Prayer starter: Dear Jesus, forgive me if I have given my first love and devotion to someone or something other than You. I know you deserve all honor, glory and praise.  Please help me to become 100% sincerely devoted to living my life for you. Help me to love you with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength. Guide me, show me, and teach me how to live totally devoted to You. In your name, amen.

        Your mission, should you choose to accept it, is to start becoming more devoted to God today. Make it a priority to pray and read His word every day.

ABC's of Godly Character - C

C is for Confession! Confession is the admission of wrongdoing or sin, admission of guilt, a voluntary written or verbal statement admitting you have done something wrong. None of us like to be wrong. It is difficult to admit when we are wrong, however, as a Christian that is exactly what we are supposed to do. James 5:16 says “Therefore, confess your sins to one another and pray for one another, that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous person has great power as it is working.” (ESV). When we are honest enough to tell God where we have sinned and ask other believers to pray for us, we can have the power of the Holy Spirit to overcome that sin. 1 John 1:9 says “If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.” (ESV). We all need forgiveness when we do something wrong. We will mess up in friendships and relationships but we should try to correct those mistakes. No sin is allowed in heaven so we must confess our sins and sincerely ask for forgiveness. Also, we should ask others for forgiveness when we do wrong to them. Be specific when seeking forgiveness from God or from people. We need to be willing to specifically say what we have done wrong and then make it right. With confession of sin, relationships will grow stronger. Our relationship with God and others gets stronger when it is based on honesty, surrounded by confession and forgiveness. When you seek forgiveness from another person, remember you can’t control that person or their response. Keep focusing on God and trying to live for Him, then leave the outcome of the relationship in His hands. It is also good to confess your sins to a faithful, Godly friend if you are struggling. That way they can hold you accountable to move forward out of that sinful stronghold. Christ knows what is best for you, confess where you need help today. 

         Prayer starter: Father, You are a wonderful God, mighty to save and forgive when we ask You. Please forgive me for _____________, which is wrong in Your eyes. Help me to be honest enough to seek forgiveness from the people I have done wrong to also. I need your Spirit to guide me in my life and to help me not sin against you. Let my words and deeds be more pleasing in your sight.  Amen.    

        Your mission, should you choose to accept it, is to confess your sins to God and to those you have wronged so that you may receive forgiveness today.